One of the most publicized celebrity break ups of 2008 was Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake's.  It was almost exactly one year ago, after a 4 year relationship that they decided to go their separate ways. According to their publicists, it was an amable, break up.  Is there such a thing? 

I don't know about you, but when I've gone though a break up girl, duele mucho, and the word amicable is not anywhere to be heard.  I guess these celebrity publicists just use these kinds of terms so that celebrities come out looking good and in control. 

Anyway, if you've been through a break up recently, I know how hard it can be. So, I thought I might share a site with you quince girls that you might want to check out, it gives you consejos on how to deal with a break up in the best possible way, if there is such a thing.  Log on to http://www.ozarkguidance.org/, and put in "dealing with a breakup" in the search area. 

I remember my first real heart break, it was at the age of 15, and I thought I was going to die for sure.  I did not. And you know que paso?  Fourteen years later I ran into the love of my life Miguel again, and we got married! 

 Thank God, I didn't lose it with him back then.  Take my advice, if you are going though a heart break, now is the time to get all your amigas and stay busy, but whatever you do, don't get crazy. Nunca sabes lo que va pasar en el futuro!

Tu Amiga,

Sammi